It's been like a month, and I've hooked up with like 2-3 girls a week, but I can't get over my ex.
It sounds stupid and I know it's stupid to but I keep thinking about what we could have had and the future etc... stupid because that's not even real, it never existed and doesn't exist!
But I keep thinking how great she was and all that stupid stuff...
Anyways I find out she's now in a relationship and so I decided to go out again with some girl and it's a great distraction, I don't think about her when I'm with other women... but now that I'm alone... I'm thinking about HER...
What the f*** is wrong with me?!?!
Basically when we talked she said she had made up her mind and that I did a lot of things to push her away..she was cool with me dating other people even though she wasnt...but she couldn't deal w it anymorew everything else.
She already made up her mind. I tried to get her back. I gave her her space but she just jumped str8 into a relationship!
F*** it's weird to say but I miss her when I'm not with other women. When I'm with other women I don't think about her... but I know it's just a distraction...
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sometimes its not about how many girls you can get its about who you are.
try to redefine yourself. things that interest you, the happiness within by yourself rather than with other girls.
once you know what happened to your last relationship and will be better with the next.
give yourself more time, do other activities.
took me more than 9 months and I have to deal w. my ex. almost daily for the rest of my life. we were together over 10 yrs.
now I am happy for him and I don't even want to be w. him anymore even though he is my love of my life and all that...
i am happy within...
you will be okay at the end and more mature about things