Most Helpful Girl
First of all you got the game f***ed up...I can tell you allow people to manipulate you easily. OK you know damn well you had no business messing with a married man period, however if he gave you money, you're really gonna beg this a**hole to allow you to pay him back? Learn when to be an opportunist and when to be noble and moral.
He's manipulating you. I bet he will never even tell his wife, or if he does he has her so mentally controlled that she won't go anywhere or do anything about it. He probably has control over her just like he does you. If he's so damn trill what do you think he'd do if you randomly showed up at his house one day and his wife saw you? Do you think he'd be upset or welcome it? I doubt he wants his wife to know just as you don't want your boyfriend to know. So don't let him use that to control you. Secondly, just because he says something doesn't mean it will be believed, especially if he paid you in cash. If he told your boyfriend, you could always deny it unless he had evidence.
If your current boyfriend is violent, they have jails and prisons for people like that. If he does find out, you don't have to sit there and get abused. He can be locked up for even physically threatening you.
1. Do not pay the married man back. He got the thrill of playing and controlling 2 bitches at once, you got monetary help. You're even, the slate is clean. Move on and save your coins.
2. Dump your abusive boyfriend. There is a chance that he may find out in the future. That's what happens when you play these kinds of games. You just learned a life lesson. So don't think you can keep dating both guys and it never come out.
So basically you need to end things with both guys and move on. And try to be single for a while, you have some issues that you should work on before trying to date guys. You allowed yourself to get in this situation so you have some deep reflecting to do..