i haven't seen him in two months, we're currently "just friends" because being more means I freak out at him often and he withdraws. it's a bad cycle.
i for one think that if people break up they should just cut ties and move on with their lives. I pretty much told him we should stop talking or work it out.
"Nah I'm saying its probably a good idea to have a little time apart, right now I really think we'd just do the same sh*t. there isn't only two scenarios"
he should man up and just say we should never talk again.
a break isn't a break it's a break up... agree?
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You should see it as either a breakup, or an excuse he'll use to explore his options, and if he can't do better, he'll be back. Basically anytime someone suggests a break, they're either taking a cowards way out of breaking up with someone, or they're putting them in stasis - some kind of holding pattern - while they do what they want.
Either way, it's a bad sign. Treat it as a breakup. It's better you do. If he won't man up, then you just tell him straight up, that if he even tries this "taking a break" crap, you don't even WANT him back. Tell him to choose now. That or just break up with him yourself, because as I said, it's bad.8
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