I broke up with my ex at the beginning of the year after dating for just over a year. We did not end well and I was already over the relationship before I broke it off.
My ex kept texting and calling me wanting me back and then I told him I was in a relationship ( this is months later) he still continued to call and was heading overseas and wanted to pay for my ticket to join him or if I would take him back he'd stay. He tried to impress me with how he got a promotion etc.
now after 3 months since he last texted and he knows I have a bf.
He texted and called me to first apologize for everything he has done and said that he will wait for me once again. He said he never wanted to break up and he misses me. I was angry at him and kinda told him off and he kept trying to talk how I am my family and my relationship . Asked if I was happy etc.
Two weeks after that I was cleaning through things as I am moving . And texted only because I found sentimental things of his that I didn't know I had, so I could return , he replied straight away and just said to keep them or get rid of them . I told him I can't just throw it Nd I dnt want it .no response on his behalf .
His behavior is a bit weird I dnt know what to expect because when I think he should b done and over with why contact me?
Can anyone tell me what is with him because I dnt get him and his random texting months apart or if he will do it again .
I only care because we must remain civil as we are involved in certain community things and must keep that respect . And I kinda wanna have the upper hand.
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So basically you dumped the guy.
He didn't want to break up and tried to get back with you (once again ?).
You told him he shouldn't think about it.
And then you text him that you found romantic things and that he could get them back.
And you want to keep the upper hand ? Looks to me more like wanting to torture him.
Don't worry, you've crossed the point of civil behavior there, by twisting the knife one last time.
If he has a bit of self-esteem, you'll probably never hear from him again.0