We began going out 2 years ago and just moved in together. We go to the same college but different scheduals I have mostly afternoon and night. He has morning and the early afternoon. He is always filled with work to do. Coaches this baseball little league, coaches basketball on the weekends, volunteers some days at this recreational center and he has school. He is never home anymore and Ibarely get to speak to him. If I wake up super early he's there. I have things to do as well like volunteer at a nursing home on the weekends, Mondays and Fridays and I go to the gym. It seems like he puts his little leagues first now and not me. He would come home around 10 or 11 still relatively early to me but says he's tired and to get off his back about it. I stay awake waiting for him most nights and its all for nothig because he is too tired for sex or a date night. I mean I don't want him to quit or anything butI would like at least 2 days to be with him... I've tried speaking to him about this but he says why are you being so selfish blah blah blah. I'm finding myself crying every morning now because I miss him.
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How about maybe going to his little league games and cheering him on.
Ok, so what you are going through is rough! I have been on both sides before and it is so difficult, but neither one of you should have to sacrifice who you are. Try and work around the schedules and see if you can try and pre-plan something on a reoccurring basis. Maybe make breakfast together on Sunday mornings? You both have to eat :) just get creative and try to appreciate him (and yourself never forget yourself!)
Also don't worry about people who say he's cheating ;) believe me a girl knows when she is being cheated on she just chooses not to see it for the most part. Trust your gut! You know when something is up and when it's not :)1