Why would my ex do this?
What Guys Said 1
Because most people can't be "just friends" with people they've had sex with, unless they never had feelings for them (and for some people, even then). Keeping in contact with that person, and seeing them happy with someone else is often painful, even if you were the one who broke it off, so most people, and guys especially, make a clean break once a relationship ends.
The idea that you can "stay friends" with an ex-lover is an unrealistic expectation. In fact, your expectation should be a clean break, and in the rare case when something else happens, then, great, but you should never expect to remain friends.
That may sound harsh, but that's how it works. Guys especially are very skilled at taking whatever is causing them pain and cutting it completely out of their lives. It's how they heal and move forward.1
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