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You don't trust him. I wouldn't either. He got caught out in his game. Honey, he may be still playing that game but doing it smarter.
I know a guy who has been in relationship with a girl for 5 years. He had been in a year-2 year relationship before that and she devastated him,broke his heart and dug it into the ground. She was horrendous. He was hurt. He decided there's no point being 'in love' and putting oneself in this situation if the woman can't be faithful. So, he meets a new girl who's overweight. She's meets me one day and he lets me know (we were good friends) that a few days later, she asked him who I was...panic, panic. What she doesn't know is that he fancied me for a long time and would have dated me exclusively IF I wanted to be with him. So, he's with this girl, and lets me know (we were pretty honest with each other) that he's been sleeping around with random women for the first year. She suspected me esp. and didn't want him to even speak with me on the phone or text. She didn't trust me and him. There was never anything and out of respect, I agreed with him that I would keep out of the picture until she's more stable. I did give out to him for sleeping around and he actually curbed that a few months later. He has been faithful to this girl now and is due to marry her next year.
He says she cares for him and all his needs, she makes him laugh. Does he love her though...I don't choose to ask as it is none of my business.
He has chosen to devote himself to this girl and marry her...
If you were in this situation, would you stay with him? He's curbed his actions and is devoted to her. She may or may not have known what was going on over the last few years. Either way, she's remained in relationship with him. Life is full of choices. You can decide to remain in relationship with this man OR decide that trusting him is just never going to happen.
You can loose yourself today...this minute and conclude that you were spared from more heartache. You could stay with him, not be considered 'single' again and see where it leads. He could grow up too..
The ball is in your court... .
Please Best answer me.