Any way she has been very flirty and well... rather horny. I let her go with it because I think its just all in fun but one night she was so tiered and babbling and telling me how much she still cares for me. I have since worked on trying to build a relationship with her, I have been attentive, drawn lines but not to strict and been a good friend to her. What I didn't know is that months previous she was involved with a large scandal at a local school in which she had sex with a boy still in a relationship and she went threw a rough time for a while. She is still feeling from that and she is best friends with the guy and his girl now. Every time I bring him or any one up she says 'don't be jealous' yet when I got an Italian tutor at my school she said she is a little jealous. Well last night I let us cross a line, I really couldn't say no and I feel horrible about it now. Any way I was trying to have a cuddly warm conversation and she turns it into 'I am not going to date you right now'. I got upset and she threatened not to talk to me if I keep being a downer so I said 'good bye then'.
I know she will call or text back sooner or later but what the hell can I do about our relationship? These feelings on both our sides won't go away.