I should probably state that we met 4 years ago in a bar in Hong Kong he was travelling and I was on a visa run from China. We hooked up and the next week he moved to China to be with me. He came on too strong and I freaked out asking him to leave. We kept in touch since as friends.
He used his airmiles to get me out to this trip to Canada and organised everything for us like hotels, meals out and took me everywhere I wanted to go. We had a really good laugh and I guess I'm upset at his reaction to keep me at arms length. Am I expecting too much from him now? He seemed very unsure what life holds for him in the next few months and didn't think it was fair to me to drag me out there and leave my good job.
Should I put him to the back of my mind? Is it an excuse as he doesn't really see us being together in the future? I'm worried I'll get my emotions further caught up and get really hurt if I put energy into this. Though he has been skyping and texting me since I got back which is always hard with an 8 hour time difference.
Can guys really do this long distance thing?