How to get past the past?

How exactly do you look past "the past." I'm seeing a new girl, and whenever it's brought up about her exes, past experiences with guys, etc, it just bothers me. For instance, her friend asked about her ex boyfriend in front of me the other day (her friend doesn't know about us yet) and it just got to me. It's sorta a feeling of jealousy, but I more find myself realizing that I'm going to be compared to the guys of her past.

I know everyone has a past, but ours seem to be different and I think I'm a little damaged from prior relationships to understand why this bothers me so much.

Any thoughts?


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  • There's a reason she's not with the past anymore. The fact that she's with you means that you are already better than the past, you are the potential future.


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