Recently I tried getting back with an ex. I was going through some things last month and decided to reconnect with him. We spent about a month apart and basically right after we drifted apart, he found someone else. Apparently he doesn't like me any more because he's moved on within that month. Fine. He tells me to find some other guy but when I talk about moving on and being with someone else, he brings it back to how guys are only going to use me for sex then leave me. I'm a virgin By the way. Anyway I decided that I don't want to be his friend because I just don't feel like dealing with any of this and hearing about this new girl all the time. For whatever reason he doesn't understand why I wouldn't want to stick around and again he mentions me wanting to f*** other guys. SO after this whole fiasco I'm giving this whole friendship thing some thought. This whole thing is sort of confusing but what's going through this guy's mind?
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I wouldn't push it. First of all, there's clearly still some hurt feelings from both ends. He clearly said those things to make you feel bad. (Don't care what anyone says, guys can make calculated statements to hurt people like women). It's not worth it to be his friend or even associate with him. At least not right now while the wounds are still fresh. If you're supposed to still associate with him down the road, an opportunity will open itself up. But that won't happen for a while at least.0