I feel like he's being selfish. Long term boyfriend. Need advice!
What Guys Said 1
this is a multi-faceted issue.
1) he is busy with school. between the classes and the work that is a lot of time and energy. Plus as most students will understand there is just a general stress the comes from school and feeling of requiring very essential down and personal time...so he does have a legit excuse
2) on the other he is in a relationship and while it is understandable that he may be exhausted, stressed, etc and need relaxing outlets he should make time for you and do his absolute best to keep up with commitments he makes.
it seems to me that the two of you need to sit down and talk. you need to be sympathetic but not a push over. explain your feelings and what can be done to fix the situation. more or less this is going to require a compromise. He makes and effort and not take his stress out on you...and you be patient, not take things personally and not do things to compound his stress1
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