Me and my ex girlfriend dated for 8 months. She broke up with me about 2 months ago for being clingy, obsessive, and pushing her away on accident. After we broke up we became closer to each other than we were when we we're dating but I was still being clingy and didn't even know it. Now we rarely talk to each other and all I want to do is at least get her back in my life and eventually get back together with her if it works out. I just don't know what to do. I can't find the right words to say and I don't want it to get any worse. I kind've went off on her last night because I heard about her talking to another guy but I feel like I had a right to. I just really need someone to tell me what to do. She is an independent girl. She isn't like most girls, you really have to fight to deserve her. I thought about writing her a letter but haven't figured out what to say or if that would even be the right thing to do. I really miss her and hope for a miracle for her to come back in my life.
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why do you have a right to? if she wants to talk to another guy she can, she's not dating you and hasn't been for 2 months.
what did you do to be clingy? for me clingyness is so off putting I wouldn't date the guy again because I know his whole nature is just clingy and he would be trying to prevent himself showing it all the time1