When I was dating my ex, because he was staying with his friends house and still currently is I allowed him to use my address for everything and my mom was OK with it. He had an I.D that had our address on it. So now that we're over I feel like he shouldn't be getting his sh*t mailed here. I told my mom this and she said well it doesn't bother me and that she pays the bills. Though that is true, he never treated her how he treated me so naturally she wouldn't understand. Everyone I have asked pretty much stated that I have the right to feel this way. Its the principle behind it that 1. We are no longer dating, 2. Why would you want your stuff to come to your exes house?, 3. When you break up with someone you break up with their friends and family too, 4. You're paying rent at your friends house so that is your home. I'm trying to move on and live my life and I have to be reminded this fool still exists by seeing his mail on our kitchen table? Am I overreacting?