Anyone else compared a new date to your ex or am I the only one?
What Girls Said 1
I don't think that's a food thing... It can ruin your future love life and it don't want that. I mean comparing is a natural human thig but don't let it affect anything and don't think about it just let go. Hope this helps! Answer my newest question!0
What Guys Said 1
We're all different, but I think it's fatal to start comparing people. There's no bigger turnoff for someone, I think than to be compared to an ex, and even if you don't tell them right away you're doing that, theye'll probably figure it out.
Especially since your ex is stalking you, and as you say, wouldn't hesitate to comment right in front off the new girl.
I agree that this tendency to compare the girls is because you're not quite over the ex, een though, my God, she sounds like b to the 4th power.
My advice would be just to be casual friends with this new girl, go out maybe with other people, as a group...until you stop thinking about yur ex!0
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