I ended a 2 and half year relationship with my ex because she cheated.
6 months later she's on her 2nd relationship. And while I've been on 2 dates it is so hard to meet someone new or even get a date.. It doesn't seem fair that she's screwed the relationship up yet gets to be with someone else to ease her heartache while I did nothing wrong but have endure lonely nights. This must have happened to someone else so what advice can you give me to deal with the unfairness
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Guess what, that's life. It's not because she goes on dates and has a new relationship that it's as good as it was with you, could be a rebound, could be something more. Life isn't about fairness, I don't know what's it about, but not about being fair. It's hard and so annoying that people who screwed you over or did something else "wrong" or bad, have a good life and all good things coming to them, it feels like it's not right. I suggest you try to move on past that, take some "me time", enjoy your life and don't worry about what people have that you don't.
It's like: I'm single, the rest of my friends all have a great relationship, "what have I done that I'm not in a good one?" well, God knows. But thinking about what's fair and what not only takes up time you can spend on better things ;)
I don't know if all of this makes sense, but it's how I feel about it.
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