How do I know if he's sincere about committing to a serious relationship after the divorce? I don't want to get my hopes up, pursue the relationship afterward only to find that when we do get intimate, he drops me. It's been two months and he's still around without sex. I want to believe him, but I don't want to be naive about it either.
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Any guy that attempts to sleep with a married woman is as morally bankrupt as a guy that would date one. Neither is justifiable, in my opinion.
If this guy is serious about committing to you, he would have desisted in pursuing you in any fashion until you are officially emancipated from your vows, which in my estimation proves he does not.
Furthermore, there is a distinct difference in the way that a guy treats a woman he wants a relationships and a future with from the women he wants a fling with. Sex is important to most guys. However, the guy that is serious about being with you would patiently invest in getting to know you prior to making a move on you. It may sound corny, but his mindset would be to make love to you first after a bond has been established and then progress to a more costum style of sex later, as opposed to attempting to straight sex you without a emotional connection, as the guy you recently met has.