This guy asked me out today and as it a small school, I know that he just broke up with his girlfriend yesterday
I don't really know him, but I think I like so I would love go out with him. He suggested get dinner tomorrow or wensday, but in my eyes that's def too early. I told me maybe next week sometime, but even then I'm not sure about it.
As I said, it's a small school in a small town and a lot of people know them and when they broke up. I'm kinda scared people would see me as slut homewrecker
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Next day is definitely a little too fast, especially if he was the one who broke up with her. But a week is a bit better. I mean it's a little fast but it might be alright. Though I think it's really up to you.
I would like to comment on a few other things you said though. For starters, you're not a homewrecker just for dating him. They broke up first. Then HE asked YOU out. That's entirely on him, not you. More than that, I don't think you should be taking what other people think into account when it comes to who you date. It's not their choice, it's yours. What they think is unimportant. You're not a slut, this isn't on you, and you shouldn't have to worry about it.
Also the thing about him moving on so quick, I think the big pitfalls here are not about what people think, but whether or not he's the right kinda guy or in the right state of mind for this. I mean is he rebounding? Does he think so little of the women he dates if he's over her so soon? Or was he in this long enough, and was it bad enough for a long time that he's over her before he dumped her, and is now ready? Who can say? But I'd think about that.
A week is quick, but it's not the worst, it's just a little tricky I personally think you should go out with him if you like him, or if you're interested As simple as that. But as I said earlier, other people's opinions don't matter so much, not even mine. In the end this is pretty much up to you.5