I keep lashing out at my ex girlfriend, how to fix this?
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it sounds ot me like it's a severe case of low self esteem. I mean in this one paragraph you said twice you "aren't sh*t", said three times that you "can't give her" what she needs. I think that is the beginning of the problem, this feeling of inadequacy. I think the second issue is this girl who you are living with who seems to kind of have you ina holding pattern of life. I'm not sure what "blow you away" means but I highly doubt she is going to kill you so tell her to get out .(period).
remember you are human, prone to mistakes and bound to f*ck up here and there. We aren't perfect but we can learn and move on...so that seems to be the simple and short application. You learned and hopefully understand what has got you in this predicament so work your way out and do your d*mn'dest not to repeat it
as for why you lash out at your ex... I think has to do with your feelings of disappointment in yourself and so talking to her is sort of a reminder of where you could or should be. This frustrates you and you take this frustration out on your ex
okay. She's not for you. End of story.
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