So to keep this simple, I met this girl randomly at a party and she was drunk but came on to me strong (put her number in my phone and was pretty cool all night) we made out but I didn't go further because she was too drunk, I sent her home with her friends. She started contacting me and eventually I saw her everyweekend for a couple weeks. It was always just a hook up and then casually hanging out for a few hours. Eventually I found out she just got out of a long term relationship and later she said that she was starting to like me "more than she should be", obviously the wording was red flag, but I was starting to like her too so I just rolled with it.
One weekend after taking her back to my place and fooling around, she said that she is a mess ( probably because of her ex) and things were moving too fast and she wanted a break. She removed me from FB and stopped contacting me, I told her I understood and moved on. Everything was fine, but then after a week she starts talking to me like that didn't happen, always contacting me first. Basically I have no idea what her reasons are for doing this...Ive been played before this way, but at the same time I don't want to ignore a potentially cool girl for me being paranoid that she is just keeping me as a fall back. Idk...haha I'm confused.
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I actually think she really likes you, or at least feels comfortable around you, the bad part: she still have feelings for his ex, she must be very confused but obviously missed you enough to start talking to you again. My advice to you is that you should establish how this girl is dealing with her break up and if she is considering getting back with the guy or trying to move on.
This could be a girl that loves drama and guys' attention, and is fooling around with you but wishing her ex would call her and try to make things work again or a girl who is really trying to move on and happened to meet a guy she really likes to soon. Establishing this will tell you how to act and what to do, just analyze that and you will know the answer.
Best of lucks to you! :)0