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If a persons actions do not mesh with the things they are saying then judge them by their actions not their words. It's easy to lie, or deceive yourself or mean to do something but not follow through. At the end of the day you have to judge your boyfriend by his actions not what he is saying.
Ask yourself these questions:
If this situation was happening to someone else what advice would I give them?
Am I strong enough to live my life without my boyfriend even if it hurts for a while?
If I stay with my boyfriend and nothing changes how much will I enjoy the next five years?
Who around me will support me if I choose to dump my boyfriend, friends, family?
What other things do I have going for me in my life even if my close relationship is going badly? Job, friends, family, fun etc.