So I'm feeling like an idiot
I got badly injured after bad breakup with ex boyfriend. I was convinced that he left me for my friend. I got in a brutal car accident after was badly injured and its been horrible.
Finally hear from him
we were speaking back and forth about what happened why didn't he help me after accident
his last message was some bs about how people were telling him not to help me
anyway I didn't know what to say
So I said something like- I don't know whst to say. I haven't changed. Your hot. Do what you got to do.
Am I crazy for sending this?
He is actually attacking me
Then it moved into the topic of the past
Its not good to rehash it
so I said that instead
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Yes. Look if you two broke up and he doesn't want to help or be a significant pat of your life anymore, you are going to continue suffering because you still are wanting him to be in your life. The first step in getting over someone is acceptance that it is over and that you should not pursue them anymore. I suggest looking up something called "The Five Stages Of Grief" it is useful in these situations.0