So my first love and I broke up in August and he has a new girlfriend. I am still single, but have been talking to a few guys. Recently I've been feeling like I miss him and I don't know why. We didn't have a bad break-up, it was just overdue, and we both decided to go back to being friends.
But, after a month of heys and friendly comments we stopped talking altogether. Part of me thinks that I miss our friendship, since we haven't talked in two months. But another part of thinks that I'm actually missing him, in a boyfriend-girlfriend sort of way. Even though we don't talk we see each other at school a lot, since our lockers are about two feet away from each other. We glance at each other and then quickly look away and go about our business, and that's basically it as far as contact is concerned.
anyway, for the past week or so I've been feeling sort of off, and I think it has something to do with my sister and her new relationship. I'm not exactly jealous of her, but her boyfriend reminds me a lot of my ex and how we used to be. I'm wondering if I'm missing him, or if I just want to have a relationship where I feel the way he used to make me feel.
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i'm gonna push you toward other guys, because you're so young, but I don't know the answer for real, whether you're craving him or 'the relationship'. there's a heck of a lot of people in this world - take your chances with moving on, I'd say. you can always reach back, unlikely he'll get married young if he really was the one for you.
also if you're gonna be smart don't be such a young age, it's sort of attractive! =)