Does sleeping in the same bed necessarily always have to lead to something?

At a party I ended up having sex with my mates house mate...we then went out to a club and danced and then went back and did it again. Pretty standard stuff. I planned on staying the following night and making a weekend of it. Anyway next evening,

me and her were the only ones in the house and since we had not really spoken last night, I thought be a gent and get to know her bit and ask her if she wanted anything from the shops.

3 hours later after initially going in her room, we are still talking and curled up watching a film together. She said I could stay in her bed that night as opposed to my mates. I agreed-yet nothing happened. She made me breaky in the morning and even suggested I get a later train home later that day.

I intend to go see my mate again soon. Do people she was just being obligatorily friendly and polite or actually interested in me? Its just weird absolutely nothing happened the second night. It like the other night events had not occurred...

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  • Not necessarily. I've spent the night with my boyfriend several times in the same bed and the most we do is spoon.

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What Girls Said 3

  • I would say it could go either way. She could be really into you or just went with the flow of that weekend and enjoyed the company for the time being. I would ask if you've spoken to her since you spent the weekend there?

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  • If she invited you to stay and made you breakfast she's into u, you don't have to have all the time to make a relationship

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  • you don't always have to take your clothes off to have a good time

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What Guys Said 3

  • I don't know where you are from but in most Western and other countries the time a girl invited a guy and her bed just to be polite is long over. During the Middle Ages in Europe, people shared beds with hosts (mainly during winter, to keep everybody warm because there was no heating in the sleeping rooms.)

    This leaves two possibilities:

    -that girl likes you very much.

    -she's very promiscuous.

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  • No

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  • She is so into you, but didn't want to be the aggressor. All you had to do was lean in and kiss her and she would have devoured you. She wants u, but you have to initiate things and take charge.

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