If your man/woman become 450 pounds would you divorce him/her or will you keep your promise and be faithful through good times and bad, in sickness and in health as long as you both shall live?
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450lbs doesn't just happen overnight. I would talk them once they were about 50 lbs overweight. I don't expect the body of a model, fitness model or athlete. But I take care of my appearance AND my health. I expect the same.
I would never cheat, but I would encourage working out together and eating healthy. I'm not big on going out for food so I would start cooking healthy meals.
And like I said, it doesn't just happen overnight. I won't tell them they're a fatass or be rude about it, but I'll encourage exercise.4