just been on a contiki tour. and I hit it off with one of the guys.
we slept together for about a week, and now the tour is over and I miss him.
I would like to message him and start something but I am only willing to do so if I know he likes me back as he is still travelling and lives in another state of my country.
does he like me
- slept with only me(kissed only me)
- his friends kept teasing him imitating love heart gestures
- one of his friends came up on several occasions and asked if I liked him ( I said yes)
- they were calling me mrs (insert his last name)
- when we were out he got jealous of other mens attention on me a couple of times
- we did not talk as much during the day mostly at night but he would still come up and talk to me every now and again
- he stole my hat and wore it for a day
- he would get me to look after his stuff when we were out
- he remebered details of what I said and wore days before
- he asked me about going to a post travel met up that might happen in 6 months.
havent had any contact from him since tour ended several days ago except a couple of random flirty comments back on forth on fb which could mean nothing.
he also message me once after tour ended to see what I was doing that night but never mentioned meet me here only I'm going here ill try meet up with you later etc
i responded that he should come visit me on the way back home as I will be too poor to travel
what do you think
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Sounds to me like he was into you but MAY have dismissed it as a fling or is not willing to go long distance or something like that. However, he is still traveling so he may just be busy. You say "I would like to...start something but I am only willing to do so if I know he likes me back..." but that's always the Catch 22. You can't know that for certain unless he tells you and so you have to take that risk. Sounds promising, though, so I'd go for it.0