I'm at lost at what to do and the situation is concerning me. The problem is his college GPA has dropped from a 3.60 to a 3.2, he isn't concentrating on his courses like before, gets moody with us sometimes, is focusing too much time on that disgusting woman and for some reason, he won't dump her. Clearly if someone cheats on you, not once but twice they don't love you. He keeps following for her promises of never cheating again and how she's learned this time, etc.
I just learned that this cheating from months ago was worse than last time because he actually help her pay to get an abortion. Basically his cheating girlfriend got pregnant by the other man and my dumb brother still took her back, pay for the abortion and is still with her.
My parents and I want the old him back. Ever since that woman came into his life, she has changed him. I've never seen in my life a guy go that low over a worthless woman. What is wrong with him? What does he sees in her?
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You're intentions are good but you're going about this the wrong way. He needs to learn these lessons the hard way or he'll constantly be in this situation with women. Tell him you love him and you're there for him but let him live his life. Personally I think the situation is messed up and the chick is bad news but going crazy on him is only gonna push him away.0