He was far too busy for a relationship and we were both going through a lot. Him, a loss of a friend and the rest of his friends off to college, and me, family problems and application stress. I can understand and accept the break up, but not the harsh insults.
He said I never cared about him or his feelings in the relationship, and that I never respected his time or saw his depression. He said I had no real friends and I need him to give me the attention my parents don't. He called me a spoiled brat, and yelled at me for complimenting him and telling him the compliments others gave him. He was so mean, all I did was love him. Why would he say what he did?
Here's a run threw of our break up:
Monday: He called me last minute to cancel for work, I cried, he called me a bitch and said he knew I was crying, then insulted me some more. I said "I loved him" past tense. He came over, I tried to break up with him. He told me how awful I was and how I needed to change, we got back together.
Friday: He yelled at me, dumped me at home, wouldn't say goodbye, because I yelled "No!" when he was threatening rat tails
Sunday: I let it slip that he scared and intimidated me and wanted to keep things more casual.
Monday: Came over, upset, cried over his dead friend, I comforted him and he wanted a one month break.
Saturday: (after I texted him for clarification Thurs.) Apologized for confusing me and said the only reason we were together is because his friends were gone. I still rushed over (he seemed suicidal) and comforted him. We slept together, decided to try again.
Tues: Messed up and told him about a problem in my life (not supposed to do that) he flipped out.
Friday: Asked if I could still plan on seeing him, he attacked me through text. He said I only made his depression worse.
That was two weeks ago, we haven't talked since.