I've always struggled with this and for some reason, I can't pretend to be one of those players types that get with many women. It doesn't come out naturally in me. It's like I wasn't born to be a manwhore. Not sure if I'm one of the few man like that.
I'm now 26 years old and I feel this is about one of my few chances. I've been going out with my girlfriend for about 3 weeks now. She did commented on how sweet it was that I'm taking my time. I like her a lot but she has lately asked about my past relationship. I know she's had several bfs and a couple of FTB (she told me this herself). I just said I had a couple of gfs but I have a feeling she already kind of suspects it because she smiled afterward and said ''Quite reserved aren't you'' and again smiled.
I'm kind of nervous. I like her a lot that I don't want to mess it up. Another thing I'm concern is how would she react when we move past making-out and to the other things and figures out the real reason I haven't push for sex or even close to it? And she figures out I've lied about the couple gfs part.
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No, it doesn't make me lose interest. I'm 29and was a virgin when I met my BF... he is a few years younger than me. We didn't even hold hands until we were going out for a month and a half. He was very respectful of me...and he never ever pushed anything sexual. He told me that he wouldn't mind if we never had sex because he loves me...
When I was ready (I grew up very opposite of him...he lost his virginity at 16 to a one night stand and has had many partners)...about 8.5 months into the relationship I let him know. I think it was best we established our relationship before getting the mixed feelings of sex get in the way. But now that I gave him a pass...he can't keep his hands off me...But I made sure he wanted to be commited to me first...I don't like the idea of sleeping with lots of different men...he is my one and only...we plan on getting married and we talked about it even before doing anything physical.
Answer mine please?