Most Helpful Girl
The first thing you wanna so is talk to your next boyfriend about your boundaries and make sure before you get into ANYTHING that he is someone you like a lot and will respect thoes non derives. The worse thing besides leading a guy on is having a guy push you to. Do something you don't wanna do. So then you found a guy and you told him that you don't want to have sex. He should respect that and I don't think makeout will temp or lead him on. It's not the same thing. Do what comfortable and ask him what he wants too (besides sex) I see no problem with being sexual as long as it's what you want. If you think he might get mad when you wanna stop right when it gets to that moment that he is not for you.