I've never used one of these before, but I need help in a bad way.
What Girls Said 3
the 3rd time we've visited each other in the past 6 months but something was very off, and I didn't act myself.
This was probably because you may have felt a shift with her and you were reacting to it..I say that because she wanted space right after that. I would say cut your losses, she is telling you loud and clear she doesn't want this relationship right now, the other things she says is to soften the blow.
she doesn't want you, move on
What Guys Said 2
she is messing with your head, move on and forget about her.
I was in a similar situation, and still am. It's always tricky when it comes to kids, the father (in a lot of situations) is going to be there for the rest of your lives. So if you got married to this girl, he's still gonna be around. Also, I feel like when someone becomes a parent, and they are a good parent, they put their kids first. She even said she was wanted to focus on her daughter...basically what I'm saying is that it's not uncommon for someone to be married/remain with someone they don't "love" for the sake of their child growing up with that figure in their life. She may love you more than "him".. but the fact is the baby she is taking care of everyday doesn't have her dad..and maybe that's what she's thinking about. It sucks, I know bro. Try as best as you can to not message her and think about her. If things are right, she will contact you. Hopefully you were good with her daughter
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