Ladies: Have you ever been with a guy that has cheated once and never again? Or a guy that sexted another woman once and never again? Just wondering if that is even possible?
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unfortunately no, I've been with 2 guys that have cheated on me and both were multiple times
one would flake, cheat for a week and dump me for someone else every few months and then get back with me when he was bored of the new girl by lying saying he had an epiphany and I was always the one (lame ik lol), I lost my virginity to that guy before any of the flaking started and the morning I left his house another girl yelled across the street "how many more have you brought back this week? this is the third girl I've seen" since then it went downhill, tbh it didn't register with me what she said as I thought she assumed female friends came to his house buthe broke down and admitted it when I got home
the other one said he wouldn't cheat ever again but he was back to it a week after I forgave him. in the end I set up a honey trap after catching him 4 times with 4 different women and messaged him over a period of 3 months from the fake profile and he was constantly talking about sex and that he had regular 3 sums with other girls and told me about his profile on a swingers website, I went on it and there were comments rating him on his sexual performance from 20 girls in the past year :s
i believe you can cheat once and never again if it was a genuine mistake (drunken or out of vulnerability) but I've never personally experienced it from a guy and I've never cheated myself0