He never wanted me, then he married me? wtf
What Guys Said 2
Neither of you can't change the past.You can only learn from it.
It sounds like your future is OK.Put it all behind you and enjoy the present and the future.
Love is blind and you can't choose who you love it just happens. I don't why it took him ten years but, it probably was that he still had feelings tied up somewhere else.
Now that he finally let them go, he can carry on his life with you and have what you because he still had something for you as well.
At least that what I believe because I had a situation exactly like that so I'm telling you from experience.
But you have to remember that every man is different so ask him.
What Girls Said 4
you're fine now. just leave the past alone
Well, even the scales and sleep with his best friend or brother while he's all "in love" with you.. that ought to teach his selfish azz.. AND if you break up.. oh well.
My guess is he probably thought he needed to settle down as he was getting older.
This is simply my philosophy, I could be totally wrong. But I think once a cheater, always a cheater. I've never seen it work out any other way. I also think if you cheat on someone, you do not love them. People who are truly in love with someone would never do anything to hurt them.
That's simply what I think.
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