Or, no matter how hot she is, once it's over, is it just over?
Real life stories welcome!
- Nope - don't care how good she looks. Once done - it's done.
- Yeah - if she took better care of herself I'd go there
- Depends, if she gained weight/stopped taking care of herself in the relationship, then yes. If the breakup was due to other things, no
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I think it depends on how you guys broke up and how long/serious a relationship was the first time. I think a serious relationship that ends has a pretty poor chance of rekindling, no matter how attractive the ex has gotten since then.
I broke up with a girlfriend in college who I had been going out with for nearly a year. I saw her again frequently (small university) and of course I thought she was more attractive than ever (lol) and part of me thought I made a mistake. A very small part. It was quickly quashed by sense and reason. We broke up for a reason, and even if she suddenly looked like a 20 year old Heidi Klum, those reasons were unchanged. And now with the additional baggage of the first break up? Not a chance.
But if it was just a short term, non-serious thing, I suppose it could work.1