Your next move suppose to be your best move. but how come it always end up being the worst move after your thought it was the best move you made? I thought this relationship was my best move now I regret it .
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You move to fast, and don't take the time to actually think.
Try slowing down. If you don't wanna be in the relationship your in now, ask your partner for a break, or share the news with him as lightly as possible and reassure him that he will find someone else who is for him.
Now Question for you. Do you have issues being alone? If so, this is your first problem. You don't allow yourself to build confidence within yourself and you just rush at the first opportunity of love, when love does not actually exist there. And you haven't taken the time to evaluate what you actually want and need in a relationship. (not materialistic things, more so, spiritually) So if this is one of your issues, aka being alone, well unfortunately, you achieve a amazing and strong relationship you must first achieve your own spiritual happiness.
Now, if your rushing into things. You need to stop doing that. You need to take the time and evaluate everything when dating a person. AKA DATING, NOT ALREADY IN A RELATIONSHIP with someone. Cause when you jump into a relationship and then decide to look at it, aka "slowing things down" you find holes and you see all the things that you don't want. Were if you were moving slow from before you would notice these things and wouldn't go there in the first place. Its like playing sports. If your gonna pass the ball, you take your time and make the proper pass and position the ball correctly to reach and be placed in the right position for the receiver. Get what I mean? Same with shooting the ball at the net, You look at were you wanna put it, you don't just kick it and pray it goes in. LOL
I think you need to work on yourself before you decide to jump into another relationship.0