My boyfriend cheated on me with a girl (Just for the story I will call her Ashley*) he met at the bar, while he was out with mutual friends who he lives with (I live in another town since graduating).
He apparently didn't know at the time, but this girl, Ashley* is moving into their house because one of their roommates moved home. I was told she was moving in jan one when the new month starts.
This week I was talking to my other friend (who lives in the house with my bf) and I said how its upsetting that he cheated but it also upsetting that this girl is now moving in. My friends response, I felt was very rude. She just coldly said "Well I'm on your side, you know that. But we need a roommate and she is moving in." She then said how we have been friends longer and I shouldn't feel awkward when Ashley* moves in. (Which I think is a total lie, since Ashley* will be on the lease of the house and I'm just a guest who comes to visit).
Last night I was up visiting their house, trying to resolve/talk to my boyfriend, drinking with our other friends. At MIDNIGHT they decide to tell me that Ashley* is moving in Before Jan 1, she was actually moving in Today. They basically said they didn't want to tell me cause they didn't want to upset me/didn't want me to leave early (Which I think is the rudest thing they could have done, since I was drunk and basically had to sit there and not be able to leave)
What would any of you do in my position? I have tried to figure out what to do, but I just don't want to think about any of it.