I recently moved to a new city. This has been great for me emotionally as I have distance between myself and the negative people in my life that weighed me down. I feel the most comfortable that I've ever felt in my own skin now.
Along the same lines there are several women that flirt with me here. They pick me out of the crowd to talk to me and flirt and sometimes startle me. I notice though that when I do the same to them and I pick them out of the crowd to strike up small talk- even super-calmly- they get startled too and seem to find it hard to get their words out even after 4 or 5 minutes.
Is this a common situation?
Most Helpful Girl
That is fairly common.0