Should I say what I feel?

I work with this girl at work. I've caught her glancing at me but never really talked to her. We naturally started talking, she asked about my age, education and so on. She is older then me by 8 eight years but continues to talk to me. We now talk follow each other everyday that we work together. Twice, our coworkers have brought up that I complimented her looks behind her back. The first time she blushed and said "i should be embarrassed to like someone her age. The 2nd time she said my name and blushed, went silent and then teased my about the work we'redoing together. I've never told her face to face how beautiful I actually think she is. I went to far teasing her one day and called her old and gross. she laughed but she brings it up all the time. I said no I don't think that but she said deep down I did a little bit. I've never told her how I really feel because I don't want to say something, incase she doesn't feel the same. We're both smiling and always happy when we're with each other but I don't know if she is feeling the same as i.


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  • She's feeling the same as you! She obviously knows your interested given what the co-workers said to her and guarantee she wouldn't be this friendly with you if the attraction wasn't mutual. I think you're playing it out well but if your really concerned that what you said to her (being old and gross) bothered her then tell her how beautiful you think she is. Although, do so at the proper time and place (not work). Ya need to ask her out and when you get her alone, then tell her. Her reaction will be good I'm sure and may even surprise you, lol. ;)

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  • Omg don't miss out on this! I did, I let a guy I worked with slip away. It's a horrible feeling especially after you don't work together anymore and then find out they liked you :(. Say something to her before you miss your shot!

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  • The world would be a much better place if everybody always said what he or she feels. So please feel free to make a start. It would be greatly appreciated.

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  • always say what you feel and mean. Its better to let them know how you feel.

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  • Speak your mind

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  • you should always

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  • Tell her what's in your heart

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  • You should ALWAYS say what you feel.

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  • Like others, I believe you should always express your feelings.

    However. There are tactful ways to and untactful ways to. Usually, emotions and tact don't go hand in hand. Before you do anything, I'd suggest thinking of a tactful way of expressing your feelings first.

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  • Let her know how you feel man :) My Girlfriend and I were the same, despite being the same age. We were best friends and now we're a couple. I didn't think she'd feel the same way, so I let my mind loose one night and told her how I truly felt. She felt the same. We've now been going out for about 4 years and I enjoy every second of it. Live with no regrets man! Once the time is right and your gut is telling you to, go for it

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  • Definitely let her know!

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