How many times do you take back someone after they break up with you?

How many times do you take someone back if they break up with you more than one time? Do you take them back the 2nd time, 3rd time, 4th time? How many times do you allow that and go back with that person?


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  • None. What was wrong is still there.

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    • So if a woman breaks up with you one time and says she made a mistake and wants you back you won't take her back?

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    • exactly. Good answer

    • I mean if you love this girl and u want to make it work then be straight up with her and tell her you not about to keep breaking up with me and think I will always take you back and tell her she has to stop that.

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  • I have never been broken up with, so my honest answer is "I don't know".

    I would like to say never, but I don't know if that would hold accurate. It would really depend on the reason. Did I do something to hurt that person? Did that person break up with me to hook up with someone else? Etc.

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  • If the relationship wasn't longer than a couple years, you don't. You have a bit of pride about yourself and tell them to "get lost".

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    • Pride is not always a good thing but sure if you were disrespected in the relationship leaving is a good choice.

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    • Lol, probably! She's so cute!

    • Kissing her cheeks and her neck are now my new fav hobbies :)

  • Dependung on the nature of relationship and how we left it, maybe once. that's it.. That's my line in proverbial sand 😤😠

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    • Thus why I never dumped your happy ass

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    • But I agree with Dionysus.. My policy is never.
      On a VERY occasion, if I was the one who broke it off and the reason was not a deal breaker or cheating, lying, I MIGHT reconsider and give him a short window to redeem himself. Life is not always black and white.

    • I'm pretty much the same but way more stupid

  • zero. debatably one...debatably...it has to sort of not be a real break up. like just a big fight or something. because I strongly believe that if it didn't work out the first time...it won't the second...third...fourth...etc... and to move on is just best.

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  • I give them one second chance, usually the reason we broke up has to do with something really stupid.

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    • Me too and I agree

    • For me it is like one argument and we break up it ridiculous

    • Some people think life is perfect and they cannot handle any arguments. Everyone has them but some people live in a dream world.

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  • I make some allowance for emotional outbursts. So, if we were having a heated argument and she says that it's over, but then she comes back a few days later and says that her emotions got the better of her and that she doesn't want it to be over, then I'll take her back, in the sense that I would pretend that she never said it was over. If she does something stupid during the time we were broken up, like having sex with someone else, then we would remain broken up. Likewise, if we remain broken up for a weeks (i. e., she doesn't come back quickly and acknowledge her emotional outburst), then we would remain broken up. However, some breakups occur during times when the woman is calm and collected. I take these break ups a lot more seriously. I will not take a woman back if she breaks up with me this way.

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  • They made a choice, and that choice was to live without you and be fine with hurting you, once that line is crossed it's hard to really trust them again.

    Because love is respect, you don't respect someone if you think its fine to hurt them.

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  • Zero. Nada. Zilch. Not happening. Fuck you person that left me.

    ^ that's how many times.

    You want someone who is willing to leave you for "freedom" (aka to whore around). Or do you want the girl that wants you forever without have to see if there is better.

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  • Five times, but each successive time she has to deposit $500 in my savings account and cook an amazing vegetarian dinner.

    Kicker? On the fifth time, she has to buy me a Cadillac!

    I've never made it past the first :(

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  • I have never gone back to an ex. They became an ex for a reason. That reason most likely will not change.

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