I mean, I'm not necessarily saying that I'm better than these people. I'm just confused because I'm a sweet, sensitive, down to earth girl who laughs a lot.. and yet my longest relationship has only been 10 months long (with most of my relationships lasting just a couple months). And yet my demanding, high maintenance, lazy, b*tchy college roommate has already met the love of her life and gotten married. And my clingy, possessive, controlling, jealous ex boyfriend has now been in a relationship for about 3 years.
I mean, if they've found people to be happy with, then great for them. Honestly, I'm happy for them. I'm just wondering how they were able to do it so easily when I'm having such trouble.
Am I making any sense at all? Haha.
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They're louder and more outright. If you aren't clear about what you want and loud enough, then people won't notice. And its probably that you haven't met your guy yet. That's okay, he'll come.