So I am recently back into dating after a 7 year hiatus. I was hoping for some advice from you folks. I met a woman about 4 months ago. We went on several dates all great, slept together, and the sex was excellent. She told me initially that she wasn't looking for anything to serious which was fine with me but, after the first couple months we agreed to be exclusive (her idea).Then she really came on really strong asked me if I wanted to meet her family, using phrases like "if we are still together in a year wouldn't this be great" ect. I didn't freak out but, played it cool since I wanted to see where things would go. We were texting everyday ect. Then bam a month goes by and she pulls back hard. Stops having time, texts less, the whole nine yards. When I ask her about it she says she is just really busy. After awhile I hadn't seen her in 3 weeks. I talked with her and asked if she was losing interest she insisted that wasn't the case. So I agreed to try and make our schedules work but, we had to try and get together for a date very two weeks. Again she says that's great. Then right before our sat night date she bails. Says she sucks at relationships and just wants to be friends. Lol what happened? Did she just get infatuated and lose interest? Is this related to some kind of baggage issue? Or was it me and I am just clueless? Help a brother out.
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Maybe she sensed you weren't totally into it? So she pulled back as a way to not get hurt?
Or someone else came along?
It's hard to say.