Is it really that easy to move on quickly after a break up? He was with a new girl like the next week
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It sounds harsh, but after a very similar experience to yours recently, I can say with the utmost confidence you will never know the answer to this question. I have been asking myself the same question for the past 6 months after my breakup and I still do not know. I deleted him from my life after I saw he got a new relationship and I have tortured myself over it. Does he think of me? Did I matter to him at all? Does he care for me? Does he ever think of me? Even for a split second? And still no answer.
I don't want you to do the same as me. Do not torture yourself. Human beings are very sensitive things and he probably has no idea how much he is affecting you emotionally. NOW is the time to put yourself first. You have been wounded. What do you do when you get a wound? Clean it, tend to it, and bandage it until it has healed. Every time you ask yourself this question, its like ripping that bandage off again, leaving the wound exposed. I know that if you keep doing this it will take a lot longer to heal and therefore heal properly.
If he is willing to move on that quickly, I am afraid he doesn't know the first thing about love. You cannot just rid yourself of strong feelings within the space of a week and this new one is probably a rebound.
Good luck and take care of yourself.1