I know this girl from like three years. And we were together for two years. We literally used to text all day and shit. And I thought I was in love. I mean, we do use to fight but we won't ever sleep before making it right to start next day with love. But last night, she just asked me to leave and stopped texting me, I was angry at first few minutes but then It was like I didn't really care -_- I didn't even try going to her place to solve stuff out. I feel really sad that I don't feel sad about this ha like wtf. Is this normal?:o
Not sad after break-up. Normal?
What Girls Said 3
maybe that person just wasn't making you happy and you're subconsciously relieved to be free of her0
I guess the relationship just ran it's course
Yeah you never really likerd her0
What Guys Said 3
Sounds to me like most of the feelings were already gone, and so when it finally ended it wasn't as much of a loss anymore. These things happen, though perhaps you should think about when a relationship stops being meaningful to you.
Keep in mind that what makes a relationship a relationship is how vulnerable you are to the other person. They can cause you immense pain by breaking up with you or breaking your trust. It's the fact that they can do this, but don't, that gives it meaning. If they do and it doesn't hurt, then you weren't really vulnerable, and the relationship didn't really have any meaning (anymore).1
Consider yourself lucky to NOT feel bad about it. Especially if you are definitely in the right and she is just petty and spiteful.0
It could take a while to set in but sometimes people really don't feel bad. We ham it up because when you are okay with it there's nothing to televise.0
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