Not sure what's going on with me in this situation, so I'd like to get advice from others. I've lived in my house for a year and a half and ever since I moved in I've had a thing for my cute younger neighbor. We finally exchanged numbers and one drunk night I told him I wanted to hook up with him ever since I moved in. He said he actually felt the same. So a couple nights ago we hooked up and it was great :) Ever since then we don't talk very much and it drives me nutts! Then again we never talked a lot before. Id just like to hang out, go to bars, whatever and be friends with benefits. It just seems like he doesn't want to hang out. I text him ever since then and sometimes he would respond and sometimes not. Then again like I said before that's how he was before we hooked up too. Ugh! I wish I could play hard to get. It seems like I want to text him all the time now that we don't talk. I'm 27 and I feel like I'm too old to feel this way. Was it a mistake that I slept with him? I guess I just don't know what to feel right now.
No strings attached sex?
What Guys Said 3
Kristy, so many things could be a factor in this scenario. I would say one thing to remember from now on is this > If you like a guy so much that you want to talk to him all the time, then you really want to be MORE than fwb's . Having sex just for fun is only a good idea in very few relations. Not to mention the dangers both health and mental health. So, the bottom line is this : ask the guy if he has more than friend feelings for you. If not, then tell him you just want to have a male friend you can bounce things off of - without anymore physical contact. If he says yes, then you have yourself a real BF. " ASK and you shall receive. " Good luck and please remember the minute you have sex (other than) maybe mutual masturbation - you open up a can of emotional and health risks. Don't do it. Just my informed opinion, hope it helps.0
Sex changes things between people. It may make them better, and it may make them worse, but it does make them *different*.0
In case of no strings attached sex, one of the two partners is fooling themselves.0
What Girls Said 2
How can you have a respectful relationship when lusts are only satisfied? Real relationships involve sacrifice, love, patience, and temperance. You had none of these. Maybe this bothers him. Or maybe it bothers you.1
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