Why can't I just get over him?
What Guys Said 1
maybe he is the first person to make you have feelings for another person like that, maybe you feel you won't have feelings like that for someone else, He might be your first love. there is many reason why but you should know your not alone. I'm in the same situation you were in and to be honest I am, I haven't gotten over this girl and I have loved her for 4 years and I wasn't even with her romantically but we were close, 12 months ago she asked me if I loved her and I said yes, after that we never spoke again, I think what she did was good though, if your away from someone long enough you might lose your feelings for them, but I still haven't and I have asked the same question you have as well. I haven't been with anyone in 4 years over it but I think that at some stage will find someone who will bring out those feelings that I had for the other girl. I think this might happen to you, it could happen at any time. maybe you should tell him how you feel,
What Girls Said 1
first love is tough, I'm in the same situation. its 3yrs counting. they say the only way out of love is a new love, and it all happens naturally. by letting go of someone who isn't for you. you might think he's perfect for you but he's not, because if that were so youd be together. its not that way for a reason. do something creative with the unrequited energy and be open to love elsewhere.
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