Most Helpful Girl
Well, it's really hard with first, dealing with the cheating and now you have to top that off with him maybe having a baby with the other woman and all of that is hard. But you did forgive him for cheating and my philosophy is that if I can actually forgive my man for cheating, if I love him that much, then maybe I should stay regardless of the other woman. You forgave him which means that you trying to put that hurt in the past so,you're moving forward in yalls relationship. The other woman, that's past tense but if the baby is his, YOU then have to figure out if you can deal with him still being in contact with the other woman since she's going to be carrying his baby. I know its gonna hurt a whole bunch because it seems like everyhings being brought back up to the surface, but like I said don't focus on her, focus on your relationship and moving forward and if its his, you choose if you love him enough to stay after maybe getting the other woman pregnant or if you should leave. It's on you.