Most Helpful Girl
If you really feel there is no hope in him changing, and especially see a PATTERN, then do not go back with him. He may be good for a week, maybe two, but I can tell you from experience, they go right back to being "THEMSELVES" again, once they get you again where they want you. I know this from experience...He sounds selfish and unfeeling of your feelings. Go with your gut feeling, sweetie. If you want, at least give him the common courtesy of seeing him Wednesday and explaining to him how you really feel, and then you can move on. Give him and YOU a closure. If he doesn't have those certain qualities you are searching for now, then he either will never have them or take years to obtain them, and you could get old, gray and frustrated while waiting. Also, if you do decide to just end it now completely, I feel it best to not only delete him from this relationship altogether, but from your Face book as well. You will have more peace of mind not knowing what is going on with his "overwhelming problems." Hope this helps, and good luck.