My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months and lately all we seem to do is fight. He is ex navy and I feel like he still has that mentality and plus he is going through the divorce for his ex wife since she cheated on him while he was deployed. I feel like he sometimes take his issues that he still has out on me. He also tends to talk down to me and shuts me down. It seems like everything I say pisses him off or everything I do annoys him. I recently told him "I think we need a break from each other because after our last fight he ignored me and acted as of he wanted nothing to do with me. He had given me a promise ring Christmas Eve abs it was to promise that he loved me and cared for me and that he would works on himself so that things between us would get better. I'll admit there are things I need to work on and still do, but I'm making the effort to do so but nothing seems to change with him. I love him, I do, he has become everything in the most unexpected way, but him getting mad at over what I say or do or his talking down to me or shutting me down is getting old real fast, what do I do when talking doesn't work?
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I'm a veteran and I can only say dump the jerk. Being a vet doesn't excuse treating someone you care for with disrespect.0