I've told her and it does seem she reciprocates the feelings, but she is refraining from showing them because of one thing: Distance.
I live in London and her in Paris, and it seems the only way we can manage to be a couple is if I move to her or she moves to me - something that it quite impossible at the moment due to University.
Anyway, I would just like to point out that she has been telling me she doesn't want to risk long distance - which I can agree on because of the lack of intimacy, contact, trust, etc ...
But 5 weeks ago after this girl I was dating broke things off with me, the French girl contacted me and suddenly tells me this:
"You know when I first found out you were seeing some other girl I was seriously hurt. I've been waiting for you all along".
If she wasn't ready to be with me because of the distance, why would she even say this?
What needs to be done?
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paris to london is a bit of a distance but not entirely insurmountable.
She said that because she's simply being honest. I imagine she wants you to know how strongly she feels for you and the hope that you two can somehow be together.
I don't htink you should quit university or anything like that but I think you should figure out ways to make it work since you two have been close for four years. How much longer do you have left in university? is she in school?
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