I was with this girls about 2 month ago for 2 months. It was not a long time but very intense, we lived and did everything together from the second week on.
She was in a long distance relationship with some guy who has moved here well about 2 months ago. We "broke up" and did not have any contact for a month.
Now we started texting again, last week she visited me. I know that their relationship is about to end, he will leave the country in 3 weeks. She was very upset and I consoled her, afterward we cuddled and kissed. What hurt me though was that I had the impression that her main concern was to get away from him rather than seeing me.
I know that I want her back, she is the most annoying and most loveable person I know. We are a good team and have synchronised magic moments together.
My main concern however is that I am not sure if she is ready for a relationship right now. If I get back together with her I'm afraid that this is doomed right from the start. I'm not even 100 percent sure if she wants to be with me?
What do you think? Is there a chance that this can work out? What are the dangers, how should I *not* behave?
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sometimes there is hope to being in the friends zone... for now be a friend.. this time you should prob do very slow baby steps... if you go to fast in this case it'll be a cruch for her and that isn't good for you1